Whoever said we didn't know what we were getting into when we bought a house that we planned to fix up, was right. Yes, I admit it, we had no idea what we were getting into. Leigh and I are both feeling very stressed out, overwhelmed, and just exhausted in general. To think, just a few short months ago we had no worries, tons of extra money every month, and lots of free time. Now I know things will get better over time as we get more and more done and start to feel settled, but we have learned quite a few valuable lessons from this experience so far:
1. Leigh and I are not patient people. We want things the way we want them and we want them done now. We don't like waiting to slowly do things over time.
2. Leigh and I are control freaks. We don't like being at the mercy of contractors who never show up when they say they will, do things like they say they will, or perform the work as good as we expeced them to.
3. Leigh and I are not good at making decisions. While Leigh tends to overthink decisions and never arrive at an answer, I tend to not want to think enough about them and choose something just so the decisions is made. With our powers combined, we suck.
4. Upgrading a house is expensive! Don't be fooled, doing major improvements to a house cost of a ton of money. Tough to come up with $20k for home improvements when you just bought a new place AND still have your old one to pay mortgage payments on.
5. Life goes on.
Before this sounds too much like I am just whining, I will say that I know things will get better, but right now we are at the point where I needed to vent a little bit. When we are done with the upgrades to the house we will have an amazing place, and we should turn a pretty penny when we sell it one day (a quick Zillow search already shows it valued at $14k more than we paid for it - 3 months ago). I think the key is realizing that we don't have to do everything at once and feeling comfortable with the fact that there will always be more that we want to do than we have time or money for. It is defintely not worth constant worry and we have to find some things to enjoy in our life so we stay sane.
Speaking of which, we went to the beach yesterday and it was beautiful. (3:49pm)
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